The Stanford Family

The Stanford Family

"I prayed for this child, and the Lord has granted me what I asked of him." 1 Samuel 1:27

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"A baby will make love stronger, days shorter, nights longer, bank balance smaller, home happier, clothes dirtier, the past forgotten, and the future worth living for."



Tuesday, March 2, 2010

Weekend of Kinsley's Baby Shower #2!

What a great weekend! Friday was a not-so-glamorous evening, but very relaxing...we were still tired from long weeks at work and the late concert Thursday night (see blog below), so we threw on sweatpants, took Hunter on a walk, and then heading to Waffle House...yep, I said it, Waffle House. Philip had a 10K the next morning and we were both craving a waffle, so off we went! Like I said, not so glamorous, but it was good...and back to the house to relax and watch a movie and the Winter Olympics!

We started off Saturday with Philip's first 10K since his knee surgery...he felt great afterwards! What a blessing that we got that surgery in a the end of the year! He's finally starting to feel like himself again! I, on the otherhand, could not fathom even running a mile right now...can't wait to start getting back in shape and jogging / walking with my baby girl and Hunter! Saturday afternoon we met Julia (friend from work) and Ben (finally, our hubby's have met!) at lunch Saturday and then went over to enroll our baby girls (theirs, Abney, already 4 months, and our not-yet-born Kinsley) at the Goddard School's grand opening in Sandy Springs. How exciting to know that when our sweet Kinsley starts school there in July, Abney will have already paved the way for her and can introduce her to all of the other baby friends. They will be classmates! This is after all "private school," not daycare...we don't like that word around here...plus, it costs more than Marist, soooo... anyway, here's a photo of Kinsley's new "school" starting in July!

Saturday night we had dinner with friends and celebrated Philip's 30th birthday with everyone at Noche down in the Highlands...it was a great time! Always love getting together with that group! Can't wait until summer and hanging out poolside and lakeside with them!




And then Sunday was our much-anticipated baby shower #2! It was attended by close family friends, aunts, and both of my grandmothers! The shower was thrown by my gracious hostesses Kelly, Glynn, Celia, Mary Jo, Sherrill, Mary Root (and her beautiful home), and Ann....thank you to them all!!! Of course, every single detail was thought of...from the adorable decorations in bright pink and little lambs, to the cocktails and mock-tails for guests in personalized wine glasses, to the delicious food and sweet "Kinsley Elizabeth" party favors. It was all precious! What a wonderful day, and when I say that this baby girl got a lot of stuff, I mean she got A LOT of stuff! Almost an overwhelming amount! Once I get everything unpacked and organized, I will take pictures of some of the adorable things that we received all laid out here at home. Until then, here are some photos of the amazing day! We are so blessed that so many people care about us and are as excited about meeting our baby girl as we are!







Saturday, February 27, 2010

Concert Date Night at 33 weeks!

To our good fortune, my company had some tickets pop up on Wednesday for the George Strait / Reba / Lee Ann Womack concert at Philip's Arena Thursday night! What??? Seriously??? We could see George and his his friends from the comfort of a box suite with cushioned seats? I was on it!
We had a great time - brought back memories of our first dance at our wedding and our adventurous weekend years ago in Birmingham to see George before we moved to Mississippi. It was so much fun to have a nice date night concert as we near the final weeks of our 3rd trimester. Just under 7 weeks left...or 6 if she's tracking "early" like they say. Makes me laugh to think that, judging by our appt last Friday, our Kins is possibly 5 lbs today...crazy! She loved the concert by the way....technically her first. The music was definitely louder than we play at home or in the car, and that was evident by the amount of constant activity that she had going on throughout the show - I don't think I have ever felt her move more in my belly...ever. I told Philip hopefully this means that she loves music!


Today we are meeting up with friends to go check out Goddard School at their grand opening (hopefully Kinsley and their daughter Abney will be "classmates" and friends), grabbing a group dinner tonight with some friends (we haven't gotten together since New Years Eve!), and then off to our baby shower #2 tomorrow afternoon! This weekend is sure to fly by!

Monday, February 22, 2010

Weekend Getaway!

Philip finally joined the 30-something club with me and turned the big 3-0 on Sunday! To celebrate, we took a little getaway trip up to Hiawassee to stay in Aunt Eileen's mountain house. It was only for a night, but it was much-needed and a time for us to just get away from the house and do nothing but R-E-L-A-X. As we breezed through the 32-week mark on Thursday (and are now well on our way to 33 weeks this week) we realized that this was possibly the last night for a while that we could just take off, just the 2 of us. So off we went, and really enjoyed one another's company. After all, it will be "3" of us in a package deal very soon!
And I will update with another preggers shot shortly! We had a routine OB appt on Friday morning and they think that we are about a week ahead of schedule...and that our little munchkin is already estimated to be at least 17" long and about 4 1/2 lbs...and with her putting on about 1/2 lb a week till delivery, we could have a big healthy baby girl on our hands (taking after her momma and daddy, who were each 8.8 lbs. and 8.6 lbs respectively - and yes, I was bigger than Phil at birth).
She is moving more than ever these days, with long, slow, defined movements as she stretches and moves inside my baby bump (which is resembling more of a "mountain" now). We have also discovered that Kinsley gets the hiccups, and quite often...it's something that I have been waiting to feel for a while now, and love when she gets them...it's too cute! And except for heartburn which plagues me morning and night, some minor backpain, and a little swelling in my feet, I am just relishing the last trimester of this pregnancy...but I still can't wait to meet my little one. I am just trying to be patient above all things and let her keep cooking until she's done! Coming up this week: a wonderful baby shower #2 up on Sunday thrown by some incredible family friends!

Sunday, February 14, 2010

Valentine's Weekend


A beautiful white snowfall Friday night.
The most incredible blue skies when we woke up Saturday morning.
The kind you see when you are skiing out West.



Red roses for Valentine's day and a nice dinner out, where we had lots of conversation about our past 10 Valentine's days together, including the memories of our first one together after only 3 weeks of dating one another...



And now, the excitement of what lies ahead for us as we celebrated our last Valentine's weekend as a twosome...lots of love in our hearts for our baby girl who will join us in 60 short days... :)

We can't wait to meet you face-to-face baby girl...we already love you so much - mommy & daddy.

Saturday, February 13, 2010

31 Weeks and SNOW!


A few short weeks ago, I blogged about the dusting of snow that Atlanta got one night...but that was nothing compared to this weekend! We were blanketed with a beautiful snow on Friday - one of the most beautiful I can remember in Atlanta in a long time! The fluffy, sticky, snowman, snowball type of snow! And judging by our back deck railing, it looked to be about 3-4 inches...a perfect amount. Philip and I got home from work a little early Friday (along with most everyone else in Atlanta) to play and snap some fun pictures of the snow..and of course Hunter was right there with us - loving every minute of it! It was our first real snow in our home...and at 31 weeks, I guess it was unofficially Kinsley's first snow as well! : ) We spent the rest of the evening watching movies by the fire...what a wonderfully relaxing Friday night!

Thursday, February 4, 2010

6 Years Married & 30 Weeks Pregnant!


This was a big week of small milestones! On Sunday, Philip and I celebrated 6 blissful years of marriage. Blissful, challenging, fun, exciting, memorable, ups, downs, moving away, moving back, job changes, 4 houses...that's our marriage! And while it's not always perfect, it's perfect for us! We have had a lot of experiences in our 6 years of marriage and 9 years of being together. Who would have known all that would lie ahead of us when we said "I do" in 2004! Hard to believe that it's 2010 now, and we have lived in 3 different states, now on our 4th house (one we plan to be in for a long time to come), taking the biggest risk 3 1/2 years ago by moving to MS and the incredible, marriage-strengthening memories that we made while down there...and then the blessing we received when we decided to move back HOME to Atlanta. We made a choice to hold-off on starting a family until we moved back to Atlanta, and now here we are...so happy to be surrounded by family and friends in our hometown, and celebrating 6 past years of just the 2 of us (plus Hunter!), now expecting our beloved #3...we're starting our family in nearly two short months. So here's to half a dozen wonderful years with my hubby, my best friend, and my partner in the parenthood journey to come...I love you!

This week also marked Kinsley's leap from the 20's to the 30's! We hit the 30-week mark today, and we had another great routine OB check-up to "celebrate" yesterday! We are both moving right along! Hunter and I went over to eat a yummy dinner (and play with Pal) at Dan and Ang's last night since Philip was out of town with work, and my mom snapped some updated belly shots of me! Look out, waistline - Kinsley is growing bigger every day and it shows!!!

Sunday, January 31, 2010

First Baby Shower at 29 Weeks!



Yesterday my sweet girlfriends - Kelly, Kristy, Jenny, and Jennifer - hosted a baby shower for me and Kins! These four girls are 4 of my best friends since college and were 4 my bridesmaids that threw me a bridal shower in the very same house a little over 6 years ago. And while Kelly lives out in the 'burbs of Atlanta like us(but in the opposite direction), Kristy drove in Savannah, Jennifer drove in with her 2 boys from DC, and Jenny flew all the way in from Ithaca, NY! It was so special and sooo much appreciated that all four of them were here! We had a great time catching up and laughing before and after the party...ahem, laughing a little too hard a times! And here are we now. I sat in the same chair yesterday to open baby gifts that I sat in 6 years ago to open wedding gifts. Funny how life comes full circle!


This shower was our traditional get-together of Alpha Chi's from college that always celebrate one-another's baby showers, weddings, bridal showers, and Christmas! My mom, Philip's mom, Angela and Kelly (the soon-to-be aunts) were also there! And I absolutely had a blast! It was the first time I was like, "hey, all of this pink stuff is for me...this is real...not much longer before she's here!" We got adorable girlie clothes, useful new-mom stuff, and lots of special new-baby items for Kinsley that will make my life easier for sure. Every detail was so perfect, from the food, to the decorations, to the games...all
I can say is thank you...I feel blessed to know that our sweet girl will have so many of my girlfriends waiting to meet her one day soon!




Wednesday, January 27, 2010

Favorite signs these days...

As we roll towards the 29 week mark, I thought I would share a few of my favorite signs to see when I pull into a parking lot - found these at work, at Publix, and at Best Buy...but I am certain that I will be wishing I saw these more often in the next 3 months!


Sunday, January 24, 2010

3rd trimester...here we come!

On Thursday we hit the 28 week mark, technically the start of the 3rd trimester! I can't believe it...we began this life-changing journey with a positive pregnancy test back on August 11th, and now here it is, the end of January, and we are nearly 80 days away from meeting our baby girl (give or take a few days...depending on when she makes her grand entrance)! Things are really starting to kick-in now: time to really start making sure that we have thing in order. We started off Friday night by celebrating our entrance into the final phase of our pregnancy with a really nice "date night" together, and then met up with fellow-preggers friends Jason and Heather for dinner Saturday night...we are really trying to take advantage of these last several weeks where it's still just the two of us!

This past Wednesday we got more good news during our 28 week appt...Kinsley and I are "exactly where we should be" (according to the doctor) as far as growth, and her heartbeat is still strong. We will now be starting our every-2-weeks appts from here on out. Another great piece of news: the results of my blood glucose screening and iron tests both came back NORMAL! So that means no risk for gestational diabetes, and baby girl & I don't have to worry about food the rest of the pregnancy......if we want a milkshake - or two - then we can indulge! :)

Up next this week: our first baby shower on Saturday thrown by my wonderful friends Kristy, Kelly, Jennifer, and Jenny! Then, Philip and I are celebrating our 6-year anniversary on Sunday. Six years??? I can't believe how much we have experienced in these 9 years total of being together...and all that lies ahead of us - it's going to be quite a ride this year, that's for sure!

Saturday, January 16, 2010

Baby Kinsley in 3D!


Today, we got to see our precious baby girl up close! What an incredible experience! After going back and forth about doing or not doing the 3D photos, we are SO glad that we did it...it was worth every penny to see our baby girl! This afternoon, Philip and I headed up to a place called Baby's First Images up in Alpharetta, and both of our mom's met us up there to take a sneak peak at their grandbaby! What an experience! We walked into a room with the ultrasound tech and there was seating to the side of the exam table and a huge screen on the wall that projected the images from the ultrasound, so we didn't all have to crowd around a small computer screen. It was awesome! Philip stood next to me and our moms sat next to us, all of us just staring at the large screen on the wall of our little one...each of us tearing up, laughing, calling out "oh my gosh, look at that...leg, hand, face, etc". And we got to hear her strong heartbeat on the sound system in the room - it was all priceless! Kinsley, from what we saw, loves keeping her hands (and her feet -
seems she's very flexible) up by her face, was actually playing with her feet, opened and closed her eyes and her mouth constantly, and even she gave us a few smiles - one particular smile came when I started talking to her...ah, that was my favorite moment by far. And we confirmed that our Kinsley's still a mover (even the ultrasound tech commented on her constant moving and squirming, which is a great thing), but she did fully cooperate in the short 15 minutes we were in there to get us some pretty great shots...here are a couple of our baby girl that we get to meet in 89 days...and wow, if this experience today didn't make us even more excited to meet her...wow...

Here's our baby girl...I cannot believe that she is looking like a "real baby." I mean, I read in books and websites what she's supposed to look like by 27 weeks, but it was amazing to see her here as this sweet baby, with a nose and eyes and chubby cheeks and fingers and toes. We are already in love with her.


Here's her big, round, sweet face...she seems to be grunting or something. Maybe frowning cause we woke her up. Sorry baby girl, I needed you awake for these 15 minutes! :)


This one's hard to see clearly, but she's rubbing her eyes and we got a clear shot of her little arm, hand, and fingers!


Open eyes and a big yawn and hands up by her face.


Side profile shot with her right arm and hand up by her face, and both legs and feet also up by her face...as I said above, she seems to be very flexible and quite comfortable this way!


Below is some video that they gave us from the session...it doesn't show the back of her head - don't freak out - because of where the ultrasound waves were hitting. But you get to see a good profile shot, her opening and closing her mouth, and then at around 18-19 seconds in, Kinsley starts playing with her foot up by the right side of her face, and you really see here move her feet back and forth at around the 27 second mark!

Thursday, January 14, 2010

27 Weeks and Updates!

We are 27 weeks today - and so much to update on! As you can see (yep, back to a bare-belly update shot), my baby bump is getting MUCH more pronounced these days! We are 1 week from our 3rd trimester and I cannot believe how quickly this process has gone by. I am going to relish every last moment of housing our sweet baby girl in my belly, keeping her safe, warm, and growing...until the day we get to meet her face to face.
We decided to get out our first baby item: the stroller. I love it. We are trying to get Hunter used to the idea that this will be around for a while, and this will be his new walking companion. So we walk laps around the first floor of the house, and he doesn't seem to mind the new equipment. I even downloaded a "crying baby" app on our iTouch to see how he would react to the sound, and he seems very curious so far, which is only natural, so that's good.

Speaking of Hunter, he is still the baby of the house for 3 more months, and we decided to give him his own special treat...every night or so, he gets a few good licks from his own frozen 1/2 gallon of Mayfield vanilla ice cream...what a treat! He is THE happiest dog you have ever seen when that yellow container comes out!

Another big update: on Monday, we enrolled Kinsley in The Goddard School in Sandy Springs, literally a 5 minute drive down the road from my office. It is such a prestigious place and with 7 infant spots filled after they have only been open for 2 weeks, we were the lucky #8 spot. We now have a "plan"...I am a planner...I have to have a plan. The teachers and owner were really great, and the whole place - being brand new - was spotless. It's not cheap, that's for sure, but our little girl will be in good hands when I have to go back to work in July...that is, when she is not in the hands of her mama, daddy, or grandparents during the day. :)

Final update: so, today was an interesting day, but one that ended well. This morning, I started getting what I can only describe as menstrual cramps. Unusual. Especially for me, who has felt nothing but fantastic this whole pregnancy...in fact, I told the nurses today that if it weren't for Kinsley's kicks and the fact that my normal clothes don't fit anymore, I wouldn't know I am pregnant sometimes. I have been lucky and felt really great. But today, I just felt crampy, different, not what I have felt before. Kinsley was a little "quiet" as well, so my doctor asked that I come on over to Northside...no, not to my regular doctor's office near Northside, but the real Northside, the Labor and Delivery. That freaked me out to say the least. I arrived about 1:00 and Philip got there soon after (and thank goodness, he was great - made me laugh, watched Ellen with me, brought me McDonalds when I started to get ravenous hungry...he's going to be amazing when the "real thing" happens). After a few tests and constant heart monitoring on Kinsley and contraction monitoring on me, we were finally discharged at 6:00pm and told I was just having a case on "prenatal cramping." False alarm. Whew. In fact, Kinsley decided to really kick her activity up a notch when were was being monitored, scooting away from the doppler whenever she could, and always giving them a strong heartbeat between 140 and 155. Better safe than sorry. I am already impressed with that hospital. The ironic part of all this...Philip and I just took our hospital tour last night, so we knew exactly where to go today. Also ironic? We ran smack into our tour-guide from last night when we were leaving, but she was glad to hear that we were all good and "there would be no baby today." What a day. So, no need to panic - we are still healthy and cruising right along into our 3rd trimester next week, although I just have to remember to "take it easy," as the nurse put it. Will do.

Up next? Saturday we go for our 3D Ultrasound! Rest assured that up-close pictures of our baby girl will soon follow!

Saturday, January 9, 2010

Snow!

We finally got some snow, although it was more like a light dusting (that really turned into more of a burden as ice on the roads) than a beautiful snowfall. The sun started melting the snow in the front yard before I could snap some pics, but I got some of the backyard. I think I am officially tired of the Winter cold weather and I am ready to open our pool, green grass, flowers blooming, and warmer Spring weather!


Tuesday, January 5, 2010

Week 26: Here's What's Happening!

I just thought this was so cool, I had to post....Kinsley can now "see"...well, she can sort-of see, I guess. Her sweet eyes are now open. Unbelieveable. I wonder if they will be blue like mine, or blue-green like her daddy's.

Week 26 of Pregnancy: Baby's Eyes Open

Your baby's eyes — which have been closed for the past few months — are now beginning to open. Your baby's brain-wave activity is also kicking in at this stage in fetal development, which means your little one can not only hear noises but can now also respond to them.

Look who's looking. Your baby's eyes — which have been closed for the past few months (so that the retina, the part of the eye that allows images to come into focus, could develop) — are beginning to open at 26 weeks pregnant. What this means is that your baby is able to see what's going on now (unfortunately the view in your uterus isn't all that exciting). But do try this at home for kicks (baby's that is): Shine a flashlight at your stomach. Your baby might kick in response (as in: "Get that light out of my eyes!"). The iris, the colored part of the eye, still doesn't have much pigmentation (that'll fill in over the next month or two), so it's too early to start guessing your baby's eye color. Even the color your baby will be born with might not be the permanent shade; so you may be kept guessing until your baby is close to six months old.

Look what else is going on this week: Your baby's brain-wave activity is kicking in at this stage in fetal development, which means your little one can not only hear noises but can now also respond to them. Not in so many words, of course, but with an increase in pulse rate or activity.
And talking about activity, at your baby's current height and weight (about nine inches tall and two pounds), and at the rate he or she is growing, your baby will soon be feeling a little cramped in your uterus. Not to worry, there's still plenty of room for your baby to grow. It just means your gymnast will have less room for those somersaults, cartwheels, and other Olympic feats.

Sunday, January 3, 2010

New Years!

It's 1/3/2010. I cannot believe that I just typed that date as the current and correct year. Wow - what a year 2009 was! Philip and I were talking the other day about what a great past year this has been for us. We bought a new house (which is now truly our home - for a long time to come), bought a new car, found out we are expecting our first baby, had a pretty great pregnancy so far with a little one growing as healthy as I could hope for inside me, found out that our baby will be a precious little girl, and I ended the year by getting a new job within our company that I think will be a great role for me...actually, we both have our jobs, which is a blessing in itself. And we have the most incredible family and friends. I feel so blessed. We have so much to be thankful for! And 2010 is surely going to be one of the most memorable years yet...our life as we know it is getting ready to change forever - and in a way, it already has. We will celebrate our 6 yr wedding anniversary in January. And we will expand our family in April...I can't believe it...what used to seem so far away months ago, is really is not far away now at all! Kinsley is so present in every aspect of our lives already - Philip and I are so excited to meet her in person and fall in even more love with her once she is here.

So, here's to 2010 and all the ups and downs (and praying for more "ups") that come along with it! I am happy to say that I made it to midnight on New Years Eve...well, barely! I toasted with our friends (with yummy sparkling grape juice, of course) and kissed my hubby as we headed into 2010!